Most Common Bad Child Behaviour and Their Solutions

Tables Of Contents.

Stubbornness
Defiances
Lying
Food-Related Problems 
Disrespect
Stealing 

Having A Child without him/her having one bad character isnt possible.
Whether you are training a soft hearted child or a strong hearted child be must be some certain behaviour problems,(Its Natural).
In that case you has a parents have been given another responsibility for you to remove those bad character from the child in so doing it part of what makes you a responsible parents.

Above in the Tables of content are the common and deadly characters among children and by reading this article to the end we will show you how to analyze and solve the problem efficiently.

Stubbornness


This characters are very common in the life of children and teenagers. And it is the most  deadly characters because if it can't be control the Stubbornness can bring a bad name to be parents and family when a child exhibits it outside the house.

Most times parents hate children that are so stubborn because they can be so adamant.

How to resolve this:

i). The parents should come closer to the child.

ii). The parents should ask the child what he or she needs to stop Stubbornness.

iii). The Parents should always advise the child and If rod is use call the child closer to yourself immediately.

iv). Pray for the child every day

v). Make him read the Bible or Qur'an Every day.

vi). Promise to him good Gift if he stops the bad habit.

Defiance

It can be seen as a difficult behavior to address, But it normal for kid to test limits at one or another.

There is said to be defiance in a child assuming he was ask to pick up his toys and he says 'No' .

How to resolve this:

Warn the child that he will pass thought punishment if he doesn't do what he his ask to do. E.g  "If you don't pick up your toys right now, then you won't be able to watch TV tonight."

But if the child still remain adamant and still didn't  comply after warning, follow through with a consequence. With consistency, your child will learn to listen the first time you speak.

Lying

Lying is not only found in children, any body can can but it is seen as a bad character if it is found in a child.

There are three main reasons why kids lie: 

i.) to get attention.

ii.) to avoid getting in trouble.

ii.) to feel better about themselves.

 Distinguishing the reason for the lie can help you determine the best course of action.

When you notice elements of lies in the life of your child this is what you are to do.

i.) ask, "Is that what really happened or what you wish would have happened?" Give your child an extra consequence for lying. Emphasize the importance of honesty by creating a household rule that says, "Tell the truth."

ii.) Make the child happy by praising the child when ever the child says the truth. Say something like "I'm so proud of you for being honest about eating that cupcake after I said no. I'm still going to take away your video games today but because you told the truth you won't lose your game for tomorrow too."

Food-Related Problems 

Having a child that wants to be eating every 10 minutes is quiet Funny. Perhaps you may be dealing with a picky-eater. 

Food-Related problems can leads to body images issues, power struggles etc, so it very important to handle the matter carefully and seriously. 

How to solve this;

I.) Convince them that food is only yo fuel the body not to keep you entertained when bored or to comfort them when they are sad.

ii). Statements like "vegetables are healthy." Kids tend to think healthy food tastes bad. Instead, talk about how delicious vegetables and other nutritious foods are. Instead of trying to please everyone at every meal, serve one balanced meal that is healthy for everyone, and set limits on snacking.

Disrespect 

This is also known as Disrespectful Behaviors. They are mostly found in up growing children and teenagers.

If your child's intent is to get your attention, ignoring can be the best course of action. Show your child that sticking their tongue out at you doesn't result in the reaction they're looking for.

If disrespectful behavior is not addressed appropriately, it will likely get worse with time. 

It is very necessary to give immediate consequences for most disrespectful behaviors, however. If your child calls you a name, for example, take away a privilege or send them to time-out. 

Stealing 

It a very bad character and if not control from home it can lead to  disgrace, embarrassment, bad names etc

It is simply the act of carrying what does not belongs forcefully without the owner permission.

Now if this habit is deeply developed it can be hardly left.

That's is why we have harden criminal that can't do  without stealing even if they have...

Stealing starts from home especially children that use to steal meat from pots and latter graduate to stealing of pens and money in schools.

If the child is not well controlled he can eventually becomes something else.

How to solve this: 

I). Don't smile at the child at any attempt of theft.

ii.) Always check your child's bag and cloth.

iii.) Make him returns what you never buy for him/her.

iv.) Promise to give him what ever he wants be it money or any other thing.

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